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How to sleep with tinnitus

Guide · 7 min read · Updated

Short answer: Don't sleep in silence. Play a steady, pleasant sound such as rain, a fan or brown noise just below the level of your tinnitus, so the ringing blends in. Keep a regular wake time, wind down without screens, and if you lie awake for about 20 minutes, get up and do something calm.

Why is tinnitus worse at night?

Tinnitus usually isn't louder at night. The room is quieter. During the day, traffic, voices and the hum of a fridge partly cover it; in a quiet bedroom it has the stage to itself. Lying still also leaves the mind free to check on the sound, and checking makes it more noticeable. Tiredness and worry about the next day turn the stress system up, and stress makes tinnitus harder to ignore.

What sound should I play to fall asleep?

The best bedtime sound is one you find pleasant and can stop noticing. Good starting points:

Avoid music with vocals or a strong tune at bedtime: some people with tonal tinnitus find melodies turn into earworms. See the best sounds for tinnitus for more.

How loud should it be?

Just below your tinnitus, so you can still faintly hear the ringing within the sound. Clinicians call this a blending or mixing point. Fully drowning tinnitus out can feel like relief, but it gives your brain no chance to get used to the sound, and loud sound all night isn't kind to your hearing. A small speaker by the bed is often more comfortable than headphones.

Should the sound play all night?

Either works. If you tend to wake at 3 a.m. and notice the ringing, sound that keeps playing quietly through the night can help you drift off again. If you prefer silence once you're asleep, use a long, slow fade of 30 to 60 minutes so the sound doesn't stop abruptly.

What do I do when I can't stop listening to it?

Lying in bed listening for the ring and worrying about tomorrow keeps the stress response switched on. Techniques from cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) help: notice the thought ("it's so loud tonight"), label it ("that's a worry thought"), and gently bring your attention back to your breath or the sound around you. If you've been awake for about 20 minutes, get up, sit somewhere dim and calm, and go back when you feel sleepy.

What routine helps?

When should I get help?

If tinnitus keeps you awake most nights, talk to your doctor or an audiologist. CBT for insomnia (CBT-I) is an effective, widely available treatment for poor sleep, and tinnitus-focused CBT is recommended by clinical guidelines in the US and UK. If your tinnitus is new, one-sided, pulses with your heartbeat or came with hearing loss, read when to see a doctor.

Common questions

Is it better to sleep with headphones or a speaker?

A speaker by the bed is usually more comfortable and gentler on your ears over a whole night. If you share a room, soft sleep headphones at a low volume are a reasonable alternative.

Can I use white noise every night?

Yes, at a low, comfortable level. Many people use background sound every night for years. Keep it just below your tinnitus rather than loud enough to cover it.

Why do I wake up and hear ringing at 3 a.m.?

Everyone wakes briefly several times a night. In a silent room the first thing you notice is the tinnitus. Quiet sound that keeps playing all night gives you something else to hear when you surface.

Sources

  1. Tunkel DE et al. Clinical practice guideline: tinnitus. American Academy of Otolaryngology–Head and Neck Surgery Foundation (AAO-HNS), 2014. doi.org/10.1177/0194599814545325
  2. NICE guideline NG155. Tinnitus: assessment and management. 2020. www.nice.org.uk/guidance/ng155
  3. NIDCD (US National Institutes of Health). Tinnitus. www.nidcd.nih.gov/health/tinnitus
  4. Tinnitus UK (formerly the British Tinnitus Association). tinnitus.org.uk/

This guide is general information, not medical advice. Lullwell is not a medical device. Talk to an audiologist or doctor about your tinnitus.